This is a safe space for trans men, transmasculine persons, and any people who may be questioning their gender identity. I aim to help any young (or old!) trans men and transmasculine identifying people who may have questions or concerns. I don’t mind if non-transmasc folk follow but please be aware that this blog is primarily for trans men and non-cis people who identify as men.
Do Not Follow If
- You are a radfem/terf/swerf
- Are transmedicalist (believe people need dysphoria to be trans)
- Don’t “believe in” nonbinary genders
- Are a gatekeeper to the community (this includes ace/aro people, nonbinary folk, people who don’t want to transition, etc)
- Are a chaser.
- Your main is a porn blog
- are racist, islamophobic, antisemitic, etc
- Are ableist
- You “tone police”
- have slurs in your url
- If you’re here to troll or are primarily a discourse blog
any of these will get you blocked.
About The Mod
selfmademen is run by Ash (ashenhartkrie).
I’m 21 years old and currently living in regional NSW, Australia. I started this blog to try and help other young people who are questioning their identity or looking for help in regards to transitioning or coming out.
I enjoy playing DnD, reading, gaming, and am currently working on my first novel starring a transgender protagonist (so stay tuned!)
I’m NOT a health care professional, just someone trying to do some good in the world.
You can find my main blog at @ashenhartkrie

