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trans advice and positivity

A blog for trans and nb men who are questioning, coming to terms with their identity, or just need someone to talk to.

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This is a safe space for trans men, transmasculine persons, and any people who may be questioning their gender identity. I aim to help any young (or old!) trans men and transmasculine identifying people who may have questions or concerns. I don’t mind if non-transmasc folk follow but please be aware that this blog is primarily for trans men and non-cis people who identify as men. 

Do Not Follow If

  • You are a radfem/terf/swerf
  • Are transmedicalist (believe people need dysphoria to be trans)
  • Don’t “believe in” nonbinary genders
  • Are a gatekeeper to the community (this includes ace/aro people, nonbinary folk, people who don’t want to transition, etc)
  • Are a chaser. 
  • Your main is a porn blog 
  • are racist, islamophobic, antisemitic, etc
  • Are ableist
  • You “tone police”
  • have slurs in your url
  • If you’re here to troll or are primarily a discourse blog

any of these will get you blocked.

About The Mod

selfmademen is run by Ash (ashenhartkrie). 

I’m 21 years old and currently living in  regional NSW, Australia. I started this blog to try and help other young people who are questioning their identity or looking for help in regards to transitioning or coming out. 

I enjoy playing DnD, reading, gaming, and am currently working on my first novel starring a transgender protagonist (so stay tuned!)

I’m NOT a health care professional, just someone trying to do some good in the world.

You can find my main blog at @ashenhartkrie